What you choose decides your fate...
What you choose decides your fate…
Everyone faces uncertainty in their life but the decision taken in that situation determines their fate. Some assumptions stemming from situations that have not yet occurred, traumatized people the most. This mental state forces people to set boundaries for themselves or limit their abilities. Where they were dreaming of becoming a doctor, now they are happy in becoming a ward boy. All this happens due to predictions made by them for the future. But does anyone really see the future? No. What can happen today cannot happen tomorrow. Every day brings a new day.
Sometimes it takes a decade or sometimes a few seconds to change a complete life. There is no harm in thinking about the future, but never allow the future to spoil your present. You should know how to keep a balance in your life through your thoughts. All this is important if you want to leave your mark in this world.
If anyone is still unable to figure out what uncertainty means, let me clarify this. Well, Uncertainty is the range of possible outcomes within which the true result lies. In many cases, we are unable to estimate the true probability of the further event but the answer lies within the probabilities we think. It is just, we have to make the right selection at the right time and this experience comes from observations. When the situation is uncertain, it creates suspicion in our mind due to the minimum or unknown information we know about future events. So, here observations play a major role in defining your future because when you observe, only then you will be able to analyze or measure the situation. Now, the question is how can you accept uncertainty whole-heartedly?
By Vaishali Bhatt
Here are 7 clever tips to embrace Uncertainty:
Follow Your Gut Instincts
It is important for our journey to be positive but we cannot walk with positivity all the time. Sometimes it is better to listen to your gut. Your intuitions will not deceive you in any case. If you feel that what you are doing is not right, it is better to give up because then you will not be able to give it 100% even if you want to. Further, this will worsen the situation. Always remember that not every road takes you to a beautiful destination. Sometimes it can take you on a road that is full of surprises and obstacles, similar to your life’s journey.
Be Curious Rather Than Uncertain
Curiosity manifests largely with all the characteristics of human development, it is a learning process and a desire to acquire knowledge and skills. On the other hand, being uncertain will bring misery in your life. Therefore, it is better to be curious, rather than thinking about the possible consequences, because at least you will get to learn something from it.
It is very important to be flexible because you do not know what will happen next. Here, flexibility does not mean that you need to deviate from your path but rather it means how quickly you recover your difficulties. A person who has the ability to move on from worse situations in his life, only that person will able to get success in the future.
Recall Your Reasons
Always remember the “why”, ask yourself why are you doing what you are doing. Recall every single reason to do that work. This will keep you adhering to your goals and will create a lot of confidence in you. Even things you do not know, you will know them through your dedication.
Be A Good Planner
We are unable to predict the future but if you have a plan then the chances of facing difficulties will be less. A good planner is one who measures everything and takes lessons from their current situations. So, try to plan your priorities before you fall into a trap.
Awakening refers to inner self-recognition, which is a way of understanding your core identity. It is a state of mind in which you are able to know how you can apply your thoughts properly. Not just one, there are many ways to awaken your mind. Five minutes of meditation daily is enough to get to know yourself.
Don’t Be A Limit Setter
Do not limit yourself, because setting boundaries is never right. If none of us have seen the future, how can we set our limits? We all know that our experiences enhance our capabilities. The more we know, the more we achieve our potential. So, try not to be a limit setter and live 100% in your present.
We hope these ways will help you to embrace uncertainty, and keep you awake while making decisions. Always try to learn from your mistakes and never put yourself in a situation for which you regret later. It is very important to keep in mind the steps you take in life. You can take advice from others but never let anyone be the guardian of your thoughts because only you know the path to your success. If anyone has a different perspective on uncertainty, then please share your thoughts with us. We would love to see your comments on this post. Remember that, learning is the key to success.
Wherever you are be all there. -Jim Elliot